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Милнер will advance that sexuality, inasmuch as psychoanalysis speaks of it, is nothing other than this: the place of infinite contingency in the body.
That there is sexuation, rather than not, is contingent. That there are two
sexes rather than one or many is contingent. That one is on one side or
the other is contingent. That such somatic characteristics are attached to
a sexuation is contingent. That such cultural characteristics are attached
to it is contingent. Because it is contingent, it touches infinity.